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Get Your Ex Back Page 8
get your woman back
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Everything that's going on in your breakup right now is the result of mixed signals. For example, has she/he told you she/he still loves you? What does this do to you? It gets your hopes up and gets you thinking there's a good chance you'll be together again. But when you try to make amends she/he hits you with a bunch of reasons why it's better to remain friends. The harder you try, the more she pulls away.
But if you could just "read between the lines" you would see that what's really happening is that she/he loves and wants to be with the person she/he met in the first place - not the person this breakup has led you to become. So what's the solution here? It's to get yourself back in the same shape as when you first met your ex. Think about it? Were you thinking and acting like this on your first dates? Now this requires you to step back from your situation, look at it from a realistic point of view and then just put the pieces of the puzzle together:
- What were you like before
you got together?
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